Aw sweetie, I'm so sorry. I hope you and she can reconcile.
Fwiw, I thank you for saying something. You are totally right we're (and I mean guys, too, though I think gals get it worse) indoctrinated to not rock the boat and cause a stink. You always have to be afraid of the consequences of speaking your mind, which is sad. But I believe the more people speak out about it, the more others will see and do the same. So keep on being awesome. <3<3<3
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Date: 2011-04-09 02:34 am (UTC)Fwiw, I thank you for saying something. You are totally right we're (and I mean guys, too, though I think gals get it worse) indoctrinated to not rock the boat and cause a stink. You always have to be afraid of the consequences of speaking your mind, which is sad. But I believe the more people speak out about it, the more others will see and do the same. So keep on being awesome. <3<3<3