Grr. I'm feeling kinda stupid for having defended him. Having read your description, I can't help thinking he hasn't gotten over it so much as changed tactics.

"Pushing friends away?" Sorry, I've seen that. On a couple of occasions, I've done that. Hell, one of the people on my own damned f-list went friends-only as a result of being pushed away. And I most emphatically do not see that here.

He's still being an idiot. Worse, it seems willful at this point.