I had to read/comment after I saw this on FB The only thing I can say is OH CRAP and in the words of Bob Marley "Everything is gonna be alright" It may be a few sucky days/weeks but you and mom will bounce right back, I know it. Crap happens to everyone, try a keep yourself level headed. Use some kung fu to get out frustrations, and get your sense of humor back.
Miss you. Tricia